Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Self Reflection

For some people anger and hate are a part of their daily existence and to be happy means to bring others down. I believe the real source of this anger is from within. Taking a look inside and hating the person you see. Stomping on those around you and making others as angry as yourself may be a tempory fix, but you are still going to look back and hate the person that you are.
So the lesson is, first begin with trying to fix yourself and then you may start to realize that possibly, just possibly, you are actually the problem.

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

"You're Too Picky"

As I tell the stories of my recent escapades with boys from around the lovely state of North Carolina, there is always a listed reason as to why it wouldn't work.

1. "He's too short"
2. "He doesn't make me laugh"
3. "He has bad hair"
4. "He is a bad kisser"
5. "He's too clingy"
6. "He doesn't have a car"
7. "He doesn't like to do outdoors stuff"

And the list goes on and on.

The dating world is definitely a new one for me and being a single woman is quite a transition. I have no idea what I am doing but I am putting one foot forward at a time. I am beginning to look at each new day as an opportunity and a possible learning experience, figuring out who I am and how to be happy with just myself.
So, you say too picky, I say not settling. Self worth is about knowing what you deserve and I know that I deserve the best.



Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Soul Food

I am a realist, understanding that life is not like a cinema and there is not always a happy ending. Sometimes things don't always turn out the way that you have hoped. However, the life experiences enrich our very existence, it's like nutrition for our souls. These experiences teach us how to trust, care, love, and hate, they teach us how to be human.